Monday 29 November 2010

Single?

Hey my gorgeous people,

I hope you are all having an amazing day.

Wanted to speak to you all about singleness :) I am now single and have been through quite a traumatic break up. Arnt break ups so horrible and isnt it so weird how people who are so in love can change each other so much. Like, it really does change who you are and what you stand for.

I have spent the last month crying and now i am smiling. You should always deal with these things in your own way. My way is to cry and cry and cry - I actually think i have cryed an entire ocean :) I didnt know it was coming you see and thought things were good. Its so awful when you think your life is heading in a direction with someone and then BOOM it changes and there is nothing else you can do about it.

Just to try and get a man to love you in the same way that you love them is just so hard. But is it worth the hurt? I am not too sure - I hope i will feel differently one day about love. For now though, i have realised that people say that your friends can never fill the gap that a man does,... well i disagree and the way i think now is that a man can NEVER fill the void that your friends do.

Your friends are probably the most important people in your life- whether you have 1 or a million.. they all are important. So send your friends a message right away to tell them how much you appreciate them because one day... one day you will need them .

Anyway .. i hope you have a fabulous week and i love you all

Big hugs to all the broken hearted girls out there.

xxxx